The one thing I think “feminists”, however you identify as one, should be VERY careful of is- policing other women’s behavior. I feel as though when you do this, telling other women how they should “liberate” themselves or fight “oppression”, you become no better than said “oppressor” because you are trying to dictate how other women should exercise their own free will. I think the objective of feminism and any other “liberating” cause if you will, should promote genuine investigation of one’s self, wants, desires, aspirations, etc. and how to fufill those. I think that is what is most liberating. As well as trying to understand other’s perspectives. This sounds so kindergarten, but what you may like and believe may not be the same for another.
Listen and support.